Troubled Teens

The people who enter teenage now have very little experience of the real world. They're just too busy in the virtual world of games, social networking. Most teens prefer keeping in contact with their friends through WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat. Some of them find it difficult to interact verbally.

The biggest advantage is that one can interact with far away cousins and friends that one made in another city. Social media applications also allow picture and video sharing. In addition, one can follow their favourite sportspersons and personalities.

The trouble comes when hackers, fake page operators and cyberbullies are involved. People are liable to spending precious “me” and “family” time. A few become lost in this world and can encounter some terrible things. The case in vogue, right now is the Blue Whale game. Many people have been sucked into this suicidal game.

What I really want to say is, the use of social media is good, but, excess use can reduce outdoor activity, create health issues and bring distance in relationships with family members. One never knows what kind of people one might encounter. Careful use is the only thing that can keep you safe.

Moving on, another very important thing, that teens need to steer clear of is peer pressure. Something that can roughly be described as trying to gain acceptance in a group of people.

Beware of the so called “cool” groups. These ‘cool’ kids indulge in smoking, drinking and all those vices. The parents of these children are in the dark. They know nothing.

Now the problem is…some of the children who look at all this from afar can be sucked in. At first they go and ask these ‘cool’ kids whether they can become a part of the group. Now these ‘cool’ people have certain conditions, you need to be able to do this, that and the other. Now, one thing is for sure, if you don't behave, talk, dress in the way these people do, all of them will start ignoring you. It's stifling when that happens to people.

I have one simple suggestion, create a peer group with people who share your views, interests and ideas. Because a group of friends is basically a peer group, because all of you share interests.You will learn how to communicate effectively, build great friendships and enjoy life.Living life your own way is paramount. Changing yourself just to fancy some crooked people's whims, isn't life…far from it…it's like a caged feeling…

You are at that stage of life, where you realize that you have your own identity. You have a lot of things to share with this world…different talents…so work at your passion…don't get entangled in this web.

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